Messages from Beyond: Messages from Beyond™

Past Messages

Saturday, December 13, 2008  
Posted by: Lisa Williams
Past Messages from Beyond Since December 2007 until September 2008

Tony- needs to speak to his wife and tell her how much he loves her, it wasn’t easy and he feels he created some issues. He is showing me drinking and smoking and that these issues didn’t help with his condition, I am sorry and I love you dearly, never forget that!

Jenn – I love you.

Harry, say hi to your mother for me. I am ok but tell her to take care o her self she doesn’t and she looks after so many other people. It’s time to stop. Tell Jenny I love her and I am with her…   Times change but I am always there, Love you all.

Barry – cousin and friend who is fun, he keeps making me feel like he is in a garage. He is smiling and cheering, I am with mom and there is no reason to worry about us, we are find just concentrate on the missing tooth… it won’t hurt but get it fixed.

Kyle – needs to come through for his mom and there was nothing that he could do, I am sorry mom, I caused so much pain and I didn’t mean too, you know that. Please please don’t be sad, I love you always and I am there fore you and dad, allow me to come through, don’t be scared I will not hurt you, Stay strong for me, please. I love you and I will be waiting for you.

Ron, your dad is coming through, he passed quickly and wants you to know it’s up to you now, you do so much for your mother and I am proud of you son, it’s been hard but keep up the good work. Don’t let it get dirty now… ok!!!! Looking at you over the glasses. I know you have been talking about me, I love your mom dearly and tell her that I am there for her and that she needs to know I will be waiting… please look after her.

Robbie – stay strong and believe in miracles they really can happen. Believe in yourself and know that whenever you need me I am here.

Joan – Say hi to your mom for my I was her best friend Lori, tell her I am ok and I am not in pain, she doesn’t need to worry about the funeral it’s not an issue it’s just a formality for people who are still there…. I didn’t need it although it was nice but for me just a few drinks with friends would have been suffice. I am happy and mother is here, but I just needed to tell her I am ok. Oh by the way you look so pretty, but what happened to your hair????!!! Love you and tell

Tommy I said Hi!

Mark – tattoo’s around his arms and he tells me about a shooting. He was trying to help not get in the way!!! Oh never mind, listen tell everyone I am ok and that I love everyone and we need to have that boat ride we never got round to it, and that race, I will still whip your ass!!! Lol Great guy, kisses me on the cheek and winks…. Love ya man!

 Uncle Ray is coming through and he is telling me that you hate fishing, he used to take you on a Sunday and that you should have said something He knows that you didn’t like the fish and the hooks but nothing more. He is sorry. He loves you more than anything and you made his world. He felt like on earth he was lonely but wants to make me aware he wasn’t but it was just a feeling he gave me. He also mentioned the name Sarah, I am unsure in what context he means this. He is sending his love to you and tells you, should go for the house.

Tammy, how are you, this is a younger female who wants to say hi, she makes me aware that she was a friend of yours someone that you may have gone to school with or someone you socialized with. She is really friendly. She is also very happy and there is a relief about her also. Can you tell mom I am ok and that I love her and that I didn’t mean to hurt her she should never blame herself, she is holding a drink up and saying cheers to you, and tells you, you look great and that you shouldn’t worry about what people say Okay!!! Keep smiling, love ya girl!

Carrie – your sweet aunt is here and she loves you dearly and wants you to know that the ring is meant for you and no one else. She knows that you will not speak up but she wants you to have this.

Betty… Amy listen to others you don’t always know best, and even though you are loved you also need to listen to others around as they can help you. I love you and know that me and gramp will always be here for you. We love you

Michael, wants to say hi to his girlfriend and tell you that he loves you. There was nothing that could be done and you did the right thing. I want you to know I love you and that I will always be waiting and know that things are good here, and he sees your life also. He realizes it’s been hard but he is with you and yes the shadows are you.

Patti – Keep smiling, dad is with you and he knows it’s been hard with mom and that you have to do what is right for you, not everyone would agree but I support you in everything and I love you. I am sorry for leaving you but I am happy and things are much easier. Say hi to Ken for me.

Rosie/Rose says hi to her mother and to know that the celebrations are great and that you should start to celebrate, as there is a baby on the way for those who have been waiting. It’s not easy but it will happen. I love you and be happy. Your father is with us, he is a little shy, which surprises you, but he wants to tell you he loves you.   Keep smiling, She is baking bread?!

Tommy, is playing a brass instrument, I think either the saxophone or trumpet… he loves music but he was not allowed to play towards the end, he is showing me that there were some problems with his eyes and he said that he couldn’t see. He is ok, He was talking about taking his eye out and I feel that he would play the game of taking his glass eye out… he laughs as he say this. He is such a sweetheart.

Karen your dad wants to say hi and tell you that he loves you. It’s been so hard but keep-smiling things will get better, I am here for you love!

Mark, problem with drugs and showing there was a bad influence around him and there was nothing that could be done. He is happy and can you tell mom I am ok

Jerry needs to say hi to his mom , he keeps giving me 17 years, I am unsure if he was 17 or it’s been that long but he needs to say as it’s close to her birthday and he could never forget that. I love you mom!
Darren, and Michael, these names keep coming together and I feel they are together. They both want to say hi, I almost feel Romeo and Juliet story that someone was dying and that the other person wanted to be with them and therefore the did. They are happy and you need to know that they love you!
Michael Antony was the name coming through and he is smiling he passed suddenly and he wasn’t really aware of what was happening, but he needs you to know that he is ok and doing well you don’t have to worry about him he is such a talkative man and I find that he will not leave me alone! Lol Great guy with fabulous personality… Big smiles to you all…. Love ya!
Michelle, how are you darling, there is a very visvacious spirit coming through here such a laugh and I can’t work out if it’s male or female but to me they are obsessed my their hair!!! Lol Give her a kiss on both cheeks, that is ery important and tell her we love her… there is a whole load of family on the other side for you and they love you so much
Bonnie, your husband is here, he is such a darling, I love him. He’s quiet but once you start him off he is so much fun.   There is another spirit with him it’s swoman who is laughing and telling me that she loves you it’s coming up to an anniversary and that it’s important to celebrate as sometimes you don’t…. please do it and don’t hold the photo too tightly you are creasing it!
Malcolm he is singing and laughing and having so much fun! He wants to say hi to his daughter and to let you know he is happy for you, as it hasn’t been easy for a while and that you have been struggling and he has been there with you always and will always be the shoulder you an lean on… he is sorry he wasn’t always there but to know he loves you always.

Don - I am not too sure if it is Don or Don's. Grandmother figure who is always around you and wishes daughter and grandaugter well, I keep getting the name Vickie with this. I am being told of a property that is exchanging hands and that you should all be very proud. use it wisely and know that you will be taken care of. Grandfather loves you all and you are very special.
   
Welsh connection, keep getting the name Barry. The cottage is lovely and it's looking great, you are strong and well and there are new roots and seeds that should be sown. We are all thinking of you even though you think you are alone you are not we are all with you. Just believe.
   
Paul - connection with Sisters, Mary and Margaret. They are showing you that there are challenges around you and know that they will not last long and that you will be protected in everyway possible. It's a learning curve for you and that there are new horizons for you, but you have to stay positive you will be surprised at what the out come is and what your future has in store for you. We love you and say say hi to the family.
   
   
Alison - Mother figure around you, you must stay open to everything around you and not close yourself down as you have a tenancy to do this. I know it was hard to see me suffer in the way that you did but I assure you that I am ok and that you are on the right pathway. Please say hi to your brother for me and tell him that I love him also and tell him to stay on time! Love to you both... stay together as a family.

Cynthia - Suicidal person around you in Spirit and they want you to know that you are loved and that there was nothing you could do, even though you tried, you need to stay strong and they love you. I feel it's a male but they come in and out so rapidly that I cannot be sure, but it's my feeling. You are so giving as a person that you do for so many others but now is the time to think about you and no one else, it's time to be strong and know that you are loved. You are spiritual also and I am being told that you must not turn your back on your belief and that it can help you through so much at this trying time. Keep your heart open and you will be ok. Love you mom.

Jay - Needs to get a message to mom to let her know that he's ok and that he has lots of friends whom he adores and they adore him. He is not alone and that you need to be strong and he knows you have good people around you looking after you. he is smiling a bag wide grin and he is so happy that you are keeping him and his dream alive. Love you to heaven and back!
   
   
Bill wants to say Hi to his wife, he loves you very much and there was little that could be done in the end I know you kept smiling all the way through it and it was hard for you but I know you are well and you look well and great. I know it was hard towards the end but I am still here, and you feel me and talk to me so it's your time to believe you kept telling me too. (He laughs) I love you and one day we will be together but I don't want to see you here any time soon you have soo much to do. Love you. I am not sure if he has called you Rose or he wants to give you a Rose.
   
Bill - Grew up around you in an old industry (I want to say mining or something like that, which is old) he is all smiles and cheekyness and also he wears a cap. Like a flat cap. He is such a happy chappie he is whistling and also jangling his money or keys in his pocket. He is making me aware that he is a grandfather figure for you. He's doing well. He's a bit of a chatterbox too.... loves to chat, be funny and crack jokes, bless him.. sadly no real content of messages just making his presence known and that he is happy.

Arthur - He is with his mother whom he loved and also he is also with his wife. They are all standing smiling, he is a kind gentleman with smiling eyes and who is warm, caring and sweet. He keeps commenting on the weather, I would think this is something that used to create a laugh when he was still with us. And he likes to keep tabs on his cash... I wouldn't say he was strict but I would say that he knew what he had and were he spent it. He also wants me to be aware of Cheese! I am not sure whether he loved it or made it, but he just said Cheese, or it could be something to do with smiling at a camera, as when he said it again he was smiling... He loves you and never thought this was possible! ha ha ha
   
Joan - Mother figure, who is very warm but wants me to know that there was cancer around her and possibly her sister. They are together, I feeling that there was a problem with breast cancer and also that there may be a breast cancer scare around the family but she is assuring me that it is ok and it is nothing to worry about. Don't wait for it just address it when it happens. She also tells me the name Brenda and she is making me sing, 'Morning has Broken' They are well and send their love
   
Older gentleman, granddad who is singing, there is no name though. He is singing the 'Old Rugged Cross' I think he would possibly sing in the choir or in church. Such a jolly chap. I am now getting the name Frank also. He wants to say it wasn't as bad as he was expecting and that he is proud of his boys. He is also showing me a uniform and also team colors that are blue, so there is obviously a team that you all support. Nodding his head and smiling, and he is telling that it doesn't hurt, but he is kind of whispering it as if to show me he was surprised. Take this with love, he is such a character!
   
2 Young brothers in Spirit who died of the same thing - They want to say hi to mom and want to let me tell her that they are together and well and there is no need to worry or be afraid, we haven't gone to the bad place, we are good boys in your heart and we are good boys in your soul and we are that way now. They know that they should have done things differently and that it was a mistake that they made but they want you to know that they are happy and they are being looked after by another gentleman who was a strong man, I think it's a father figure for you, but that man is quiet and it's the fact that your boys have come through now to you. They love you very much and they are not blaming each other like they used to, but they are laughing about this so I would say that there is a private joke with this one.... they are characters and can you say hi to the family and friends they are showing me that there is a man alive at the moment who was close to them that doesn't believe in this sort of thing and they are telling him to open his eyes and see the signs... believe!
   
A lady was buried or cremated in Orange. Orange chiffon top, with flowers on it and also orange tank top and then matching bottoms and she is blond, she is making me feel like she is from Australia or that way and that she is an aunty of the person who is reading this, she is a lot of fun and very much a character. She is a chatterbox and she wants everyone she is happy alive and that she is still causing a nuisance over there.... she has a great laugh. She tells me that she never helped herself before she passed but she is not blaming herself, she is saying it was nature! Love you all as she raises a glass to toast each and every one of you!
   
I have a gentleman who is speaking Flemish. He is showing me that he is your father and that you need to know that mom and dad are together. Mom I feel spoke the language but also they spoke another language also. I feel very well dressed and as I say that your mother is laughing and saying 'Now he is' ha ha ha so I would say that he used to like to think that he was well dressed... or he was if mom chose the clothes! They show me a cat and they are proud of you and the other children and they know about the new arrivals in the family. They are very proud of you and tell your brother to open up his mind.
   
Canadian gentleman, I keep getting the name Alex. He wants to tell Rosie he loves her and that he didn't mean to do it, he is sorry for all the hassle caused and that she did the right thing, love you babe.
   
Linda - Your father is here, he passed with a heart attack, and there was nothing anyone could do, but you knew he was waiting for his passing to happen. He was strong and he is happy that it happened in the way it did. He didn't want to go in the way that his brother went and that others are suffering. Please be happy that I am happy, and off he walks whistling

Norma - Grandmother figure who is smiling and very very happy. She wants you to know that she is with her sister and her mother and that you need to start eating properly. You haven't been eating right over the last few days and that it's not doing you any good and also sleep too. She knows you have a lot going on but there is little you can do about it so stop worrying and know that she loves you and cares for you.

Grace - Stop wanting what you can't have, there is nothing you can do, you need to stop. You are only causing more trouble for yourself. What are you trying to achieve, you are making things up all the time. You can do so much good in your life if you will just move on away from something you can't have, I know you and I never really liked each other but you need to know that I am here for you in more ways than you believe. You are not alone and stop thinking that way, you are just creating negativity and there is nothing you can do. Stay strong and believe and move on. I love you and I never told you this but I am here for you. I love you. Mother

Jamie - He passed in a car accident and he wants to let his family know that they did the right thing, there was nothing you could do, you did all you can and he knows what a decision you had to make but he is proud of you and happy that you made it. He keeps saying, 'I was not coming back' and you didn't want to believe it. He also wants to say Hello and sent love to Sara(h) and tell her that she is always in his heart. It wasn't my fault you need to know this and listen to your heart, it was an accident it wasn't my fault and he is playing very loud music but he is showing me that he had his music on and loved it. Be strong and I know we will see each other again

Melanie - passed in a car accident and wants to say she is sorry to her parents and her siblings, I am so sorry it wasn't supposed to happen, I was on my way home it was my fault and I want you to know that I shouldn't have been on the phone, you kept telling me and although I thought I would be alright you somehow knew. I am so sorry, I just wanted to let you know I was ok and that I was on my way home. She keeps showing me a pink phone and she is texting on her phone... and as I type this she laughs and says constantly! She wants to let you know that she is ok and that she is being cared for and that she is laughing about the Red T-shirt, and that it's got a mark on it and it didn't before this is something that you have done since her passing and she knows about it but she is finding it funny! Blowing of kisses and bubbles, and sending bug hugs to you

Charles - He wants to say hi to Maggie, he is showing me that Maggie will not read this and it's a friend of hers that will have to point it out. He wants to thank Maggie for all that she did for him, and although it wasn't easy, he remembers! He remembers when she read to him and helped him even when she pushed him away. She is always in his heart and he is happy that she had time to come to terms with it. He shows me that neither of you believed that this was going to happen and that it was just something that happened, losing your memory and you used to laugh about it, but as it got more and more serious he thanks you for standing by him when he felt others didn't he will always love you and know that you are cared for by him now. Keep on writing the story needs to be told.

Silvia - You need to stop smoking! Your daughter keeps on at you and you need to do it, I keep seeing a cancer around the family and that it runs in the family. You are being warned to watch your health and you are more worried about others and that you never think it's going to happen to you. She keeps telling me to watch your heath and that you should change the diet and calm down. She is vibrant and happy and full of life and constantly laughing and smiling but needed to let you know that she is with you. You are not leaving this earth plane but you need to watch the health.... she is being very firm!

Mary - She is showing me that she had a liver disease and that they did everything they can to help her but at the end she wanted to go and that she was glad when they came to collect her, she tells me that she shouldn't suffer and that they would have put a dog down so why couldn't they have given her an injection too... she is an animal lover (or joking about being one) she didn't want to be seen in that state and was always someone who liked to look the part of a lady, she just said some people will find that funny! But she is happy and she is calm and she wants to say sorry for the hassle that she caused with the family and the spilt it wasn't meant to happen and that she didn't realise it would cause so many problems! She is talking very lively and also very boldly too.

Johnny- I love you and thank you for everything that you did for me, I know you did your best and that you looked after me, you feel guilty because while I was in your care I died but it was fate and that there is nothing that can be done, I want you to know I love you more than anything and that time we had together traveling was the best time ever. You have still the photos to download, so download them. I am ok and it's ok to move on. I love you always.... Em

Sarah - Your grandfather loves you and knows that you have done something in his honor and your grandmother is so proud of you she is beaming... Be safe my love are her words.

Josie - Your dad wants to say Happy Birthday to you!
   
Janice - There is a Vietnam war hero coming to you he is teling me that he knows you and that you are such a good person and that you should be proud of everything that you did and every one you helped remembers you. You really are an angel and you should remember that. No one in your new life knows about this but he wants to shout it from the roof tops as to him he is so happy that he met you and that you are wonderful.
   
Betty - As I acknowledge her she says 'finally' lol. Bless her, She wants to say hi to her sister and tells you it's not as bad as you think. Dad was here to greet me and also to say sorry, you know he has a lot to say sorry for but I wasn't expecting it AT all... but he was kind not like the father we knew but he has asked for my forgiveness and I gave it to him but I know you may tike longer. Boy I was expecting to have mother greet me so imagine the shock I had, I nearly had another heart attack ha ha ha!!! I didn't know where to look especially when he was there with his arms open to hug me... oh it was funny but we are all one big happy family, even mother has forgiven him and the dog is here and your cats... Oh I could chat forever with you but I know there are others who need to step in. You will love it here but don't come before your time... Love you

Johnny - Passed of Pneumonia which came on because of AIDS, he wants to say hi to Julie and Colleen who were there for him along with many of his other friends, he is so happy about the send off you gave him, the funeral was amazing and stunning and everything he could ever wish for and more... thank you for everything you did. he never realized he had this issue until he was talked down with a small cold he couldn't get over but he is happy and he keeps saying that he is rich, even though he joked that he will never be a rich man. He is rich is emotion, love and friends... thank you to all those who loved and honored me!
   
Harold - He wants to let his family know that he has his daughter with him who was taken in a fire. He is saying be free with your feelings and emotions and I am happy for you. Know that the fire was not something she could do anything about but she is healing and that when it's her turn he will show her the way to come back and communicate with you. He is looking after her now and that he is glad he can finally do something for her.
   
Matthew - Young boy, he had a swimming accident he is showing me that he was taken in water, I am doing ok and I want to let mom know I am ok and that I love her. It wasn't anyones fault and I know people keep asking why and he just says that sometimes it's just their time. I love you mom and thanks for the honor.
   
Terrance - Need to say hi to his wife, he loves and honors you and you must know that you can do anything you want to do and that I will love you no matter what. I will not judge you and you can do what you need to do with the wedding ring.
   
Crystal - Your grandfather is with you and he is smiling he keeps flicking his tongue through a gap in teeth but these are not his teeth they could be yours but it;s a fond memory that he has, and he wants to let you know that he loves you and please say hi to mom as he knows that she misses him also. Be strong and believe and it was me that came to you. Love ya!
   
Nancy - You nearly missed your chance, mother loves you and she she is not holding any grudges and neither should you.

Bob - English gentleman who loves his bacon butties!!! he has his hands in his pockets and rattles his change (shrapnel) and is laughing, very jolly and loved a drink.... tell your mom I'm ok and that she should stop worrying and paint and then sell the house, she needs a new beginning, it's about time, and you, (I wanna call you tracy) need to move from that job, it's not doing you any good, but know that don't you??? Grandma is here and she's smiling at ya, but I just needed to pop in and say hi, don't forget the sauce on the sarnie! ha ha ha!

Whilst I was sleeping a gentleman came to me, he was wearing a brownish suit and looked very smart but quite thin. He had white hair and was sitting down almost waiting for someone. I asked him who he was waiting for and he didn't say. I said him if he had a message for anyone and he said YES!
All he said was 'Wish Stephanie, Happy Birthday and please let her know things will be ok' He then disappeared.

Melissa - Dad is her for you and he wants to say hi. He is telling me he has been quiet recently and he knows that you and mom are fine. can you please remember to feed the cat. He keeps showing me that the cat hairs would get on his chest but he is stroking the cat anyway. Tell your brother I am proud of him too, it's not been easy and I am sorry for this. I am there with you and he keeps taking me to Wednesday I have no idea why but just know that I am with you, is what he is saying and that he is so very proud of you. Don't ever be afraid to tell things how they really are. I love you and happy birthday I know I always miss it but it's an early birthday wish! love you

Kathy/Cathy - Mom i'm sorry, you know what I am like! To me she is a very strong natured girl but sweet with a fun style and appearance. You know mom on the night I died it was really weird I kinda knew it was going to happen and I knew that I was facing something else but I didn't fear this. It didn't know why, we had gone out and I know you never knew what happened and here I want to let you know that I am ok. You don't have to worry I know you went to the police to get closure but it never came. I told you I would visit you, I always did. I wasn't a bad girl and I never meant to get into the problems that I did you and dad always bailed me out and i am sorry. I didn't take them on purpose I didn't, really. they were there and I thought well everyone else is doing it so why don't I, but I did too much and I know I shouldn't. My heart raced and it was time, and it was peaceful it really didn't hurt. I want you to know I am ok and I feel like I have made the connection with you and now I can't stop talking, I know you will read this I know it. Please mom I am there, and I know about the picture you have with me. I love you with all my heart and there was nothing you could do so stop having guilt it doesn't matter. Just know I am here and i love you... please mom, I love you and thank you for everything you did. I am ok now I am home and I will be waiting.

George - gruff voice, Hi how are ya? I wanna say hi to my daughter Mary, she's great woman but she's had some hard times in her life and I wanted to let her know that I am there for her. She's a sweetheart. He shows me cards and I think he smoked.... he just laughed and he said he always smoked and that you would know it's him because he smoked!Like I said I just want her to know that I am there for her and she is such a giving and caring woman that she deserves so much. Tell her I am working on it! Bye...

Arnold - I'm the dad of Peter. I want to congratulate him on the wedding. Tell him I will be there for him and I will make sure that he is on time (he thinks you always late) and he knows you intention with his personal item, he knows you will wear it. Tell your mom that she is going to look lovely too. Allow yourself to live a life that is long and happy... you know what I am talking about and your sister, can't forget her now can we... I love her kids and give them a big squeeze. Love you all and I will be there remember that!

Josie - It's Pat. I wanted to say hi while I had the chance. YOu know thank you for talking with me and staying with me and making sure that things were just right. I want you to know that I am fine, just fine. I was met by my mom who was lovely and charming, just the way I remember her. I was also greeted by my sister too. I am not alone and the funeral was lovely it was just how I planned or imagined it to be. The flowers were lovely (but I sense you are confused about this). I'm home, it's like I have gone home and I will be watching over you to stop you when you fall as I used to, ok, don't worry I am there for you! Love you xx

Jeff Alexanda (not sure if it's 2 people or one) - wants to say hi to his mom and that he is very sorry for what happened. I am happy you know I am and I know you pray for me and I am fine I need you to know that. It was lovely the service that you put together but the flowers didn't have to be there... I loved what my friends did and thank you for making it happen. Happy birthday mom I love you and I hope Sophie is ok.. I know she is missing me. Love you, see you soon. :D

Mary - Cancerous tumor is what happened but I want you to know that I am ok and I need to say hi to sally. It's coming up to her birthday don't you know don't forget and Julie needs a call... ok I know you will forget as I always had to get you on to these things but I don't want you to forget, get your hair cut too dear it's getting a little long and in your eyes. Oh sorry I should be telling you lovely stuff, but it just wouldn't be me would it... ha ha ha I was always in control but I have learnt to relax and there is little I can do about it. So I hope you are happy and I am fine. Much love Mom

Debbi - Dad is here and you have to stop crying, it's not going to do any good and I know you want me back but I just can't come back can I, I don't have the magic wand and go poof and come up in a cloud of smoke... ha ha ha but I am well mother is helping me find my feet and know that I am well looked after just as you did... Now don't feel sorry either there is nothing that could have been done ok!! I love you very very much and you will always be close to my heart. love you xx

Barry - Say hi to my hunny she has been waiting for a message from me and I want her to know that not a day went by where I didn't think of her and love her and hold her picture and kiss it. Our baby will be fine you will cope I know you will and know that I am always there in your heart and I am thinking of you my love. remember the 6th November (?) see the flowers and it's me and also the feathers. I want you to know that I love you with all my heart and get yourself something special you deserve it.... don't think you are wasting money get what you want, it's yours. I know they are trying to sort things out and you will be taken care of... I love you baby and I will be waiting, but it's not your time yet... okay!!! Love you baby I'll be waiting... bye baby xx

Donna - Your mother is coming through and she had a bad neck and is making me feel like my neck is stiff... she is very quiet but she feels she has to apologize for something and she is struggling to get to you, but know that she loves you as I feel it. She is also making me feel she needs to acknowledge a brother. She is looking after him. She smiles and blows you a kiss and tells me she loves you. God bless

Steven - My wife reads this you know, I passed so suddenly that she never got to say goodbye, she had to deal with me being in the hospital but actually I passed at the moment, I know they thought I was trying to say something but but I had gone, you did the right thing and I know it was hard but I want you to know I love you and that it's me in your dreams and it's not your mind playing tricks on you. Love you xx

Tony - He was shot as he is showing me the situation and it's as though people are still looking for evidence and you need to know that there is someone who has the same name as me who can give you clues and also facts and actual evidence. I was shot in the head, but I was ok... it was surprising how it didn't hurt. I knew it was going to happen so I said my prayers and I was received ok. The water is going to give you a little clue but not everything but yes there were drugs involved and I am sorry but I never dealt them... ok... please remember that. i want to say to my brother that I love him and also to my family, I feel I let them down but there is nothing I can do i see your tears mom and I am with you... I love you very much, tell dad I love him too, although he doesn't want to hear it. you will find your answers. Love you all

Harry - I love you and I want you to know that I am safe and well and there was nothing that you could do but I want you to know that when it's your turn I will be waiting. I love you my love.

Richard - I just need to say sorry to mom, I can't explain it, but let me settle and I will come back and talk to you some how and let you know what happened, but I am safe and I love you. Please stay strong. I love you. I want to remind you of Tuesday. (I wish I could tell you more about Tuesday but I don't get anything, I hope you know what this is.)

Michael - You are loved and blessed and I have not alone, I passed quickly and it was easy. There is so much I want to tell you but I want you to keep the faith and know that I am well. Ahh... (big sigh) thank you for being with me. the impact didn't hurt and it was quick, I know you keep thinking of me but don't. I am with you sis and know that I am there.

Tommy - Hello!!! Wow this is amazing, I can get a message to mom! Hey mom! It's cool here, listen I'm sorry, you knew this would happen, but I'm great :D (big smile) and do you remember how we would laugh about my feet... they were so big... ha ha ha yes and smelly, you never forgot to tell me that and throw the trainers out the door. I know you miss that but I'm here with you. You always knew you would get a message from me. I'm here. Oh and so is grandad too. We're doing well. Love you mom and keep me with you always

Chuck - I am here too also mom, I love you and I want you to be happy there is a whole crowd of us here as you would expect, I am so proud of you and the work that you do, it's important that you know I am here. I love you.

Amanda - Keep up the good work your big brother is watching you and looking after you! I'll be at your wedding and I will be there when the baby is born, say hi to Matthew too. You will be wonderful. I am so happy for you. love you

Mark - Matthew, I see a car crash and a tree, it wasn't anyone's fault, I'm so sorry, it was wet that night and I couldn't control the car, there was nothing I could do. I know I didn't listen but I knew you talked sense you warned me not to go and you knew somehow that you would lose your baby, I know I am called that many times, and I know about the butterfly's its me you know just remembers that. I am fine and it wasn't that bad, it looked worse than what it was and I know you didn't want to see pictures from the scene and you were right but it's ok. the newspaper article was disappointing but it was cool also, so close to the 18th birthday, but I am fine and I a looking out for you nd my sister and grand father with me me too looking out for us all. Know that we love you! Oh and Happy birthday mom.
   
J(?) I want to say Julie - " I'm sorry babe, I know you were not allowed in to see me, and it was hard, that day I knew something was wring and I felt that I had a beating heart that was heavy I couldn't work it out but I went anyway. It was a great game and I was having fun but I remembers my breathing getting hard and you weren't told everything. I know about the funeral and it was lovely I couldn't have asked or anything more and thank you for keeping my memory alive I know the kids will need that. Please let them know about daddy I know it was hard and I wasn't there but I was there for you in spirit and it was even mentioned that I was there. I keep wanting to say Jim? Just know that I am always there for you and that you have moved on and i know that and I am happy for you but I still pop in and give you signs that I am there and it's so important that you see them every day. I love you and I am sorry that I passed young there was very little i could do.

Darren- say hi to Margie for me. Let them know that I am ok and that I am thinking of them often as I know they all think of me often. I couldn't take any more of this it was hard as your know. It was an escape and there is very little I can do I have to work k on myself but I am happy and I know you love me, mom stop crying I am safe and that is what you need to know and I will be waiting

Florence- Can you ell my Dave that I love him, he's finding it hard to get over the death that came at Christmas and he needs to know that I am there for him as I always was but he has to stand on his own two feet now, and make me and your grandpa proud. You always made us proud so don't stop now when you think we are not watching because we are. Love you son

Ellie - Tell my mom I miss her too it's been hard and I know she has been tough but it's ok and I love the poem and the card and the flowers and you are constantly looking for signs and I show them to you but you are trying to turn everything into a sign mom... ha ha ha. I will show you and if I can write my name in the sky I will. I love you you were my best friend, there is nothing you can do now, but I know that you light the candle with me in mind and I know the police did there best but I want you to know that the chase is over and there is little hat can be done. I love you and have the chocolate for me!
   
Marnie or Martine - whoo hoo I made it!!! I have been wanting to come in and it's like I had to wait in line at the supermarket for my call... yeah I'm here... whooo hoo - erm what do I say.. it's like being at the Oscars and thanking everyone. ha ha ha not that I need to as they all know that I am happy and that I love them, I love my dog, oh she is gorgeous and I know she is in safe hands, and I want you all to know I looked my best when I left the world although not everyone saw that... but I did... i had my favorite top on and i was feeling great, rockin! Mom I love you, and bro... give it up don't give em a hard time. Dad... ahhh your lovely!!! I just wanna tell ya i love ya and that I'm good. singing as she is leaving!!!

Peter - Mike let the show begin and lets rock!

Harry Jr. - Remember the waterfall and how I pranced around it on the wedding anniversary. Oh it was fun, but you know there was nothing to be done about this, I didn't know I had a weak heart and who would have known no one knew and that's the way things are, give my boy a kiss and my baby some love and thank you for keeping me save. God bless and I love you so much!

Jason - Hi Mom how are you, it's been great to see you having so much fun, you have a smile on your face. You know I am with you. I am there always. Even when you park your car and need change for the meter... I am there, remember. Now why have you kept those clothes I can't wear them and they stopped smelling like me a while ago. You know I am ok I am not alone, I am with others, Jack(?) is here to. Please say hi to Pete for me. I know he needs it hear it. I was not anyone's fault and there was nothing that could be done to change it. So I wanted you to know I am ok and that I love you. Look up to the sun every day and I am there... remember mom the change!

Jean - Peace be with you, Fred is doing ok and so is Alan, we are all here watching you and looking over you I need you to know that the operation didn't hurt and I am doing well I am not in the clouds but I am all around you and that I love and care for you all the time. I wish you well with the new job. I love you.

Young girl with punky hair, red and dark, feels depressed, not giving me much but wanted to make herself known to let the family know that she is ok and that she is sorry for what she did. To her it was the right decision, she felt like she was flying but it was a good experience and one that will stay with me. It didn't hurt it was exhilarating and I loved the feeling.. it was like flying and then when I died It was like flying again. I have learnt my lesson and please say hi to Caroline for me. I love you mom.

Linda - breathing hard and is struggling and she wants to say hi and tat she is fine, the cancer didn't hit the areas everyone expected, but it was still a relief to go and I am happy I went. Life was hard, one thing after another, but you still battle on don't you. Go and make a tea, I'd love one and don't forget the cake/biscuits.

Pete - Jeff here.. How are you mate? I'm sorry it was hard for you, I mean come on no one was expecting it were they. Those kids needed to be a little more careful and slow down, but what could I do. You remember the day, but I am ok I had my 15 minutes of fame but what a price to pay. I love my wife and kids and I need you to know I am ok. Say hi to everyone, and thanks for everything...

Harry, it's time to move on, your sister is ok we are with her and you haven't got to worry she is fine and she was received to us very quickly it didn't hurt and can you let your mom know although she won't hear it, she never does. I am sorry I am being hard but it's true and you know what I am saying, we are proud of you son. And we love you.

Anul - The clock is ticking, stay strong and be patient it won't be long, you will be ok and we are here for you. Take your time and remember it's not a problem. Giving an image of a car (red). all the best

Tokyo(?) Grow the garden grow it high, you need fertilizer and peace to make it happen, you know it will happen and then make it happen in your life. I love you.

Cash - I am hear for you, I love and praise you for being strong. Its been a whirlwind, but it's great here. Tell mom I am ok and that I am only a heartbeat away. The photo was ripped and torn but it's back together and it's important that she knows this. I love you both and I am not alone. I am ok and thank you for all that you did and thank mom for the money... he he he she will laugh it didn't get me far did it.

John - Julie your man loves you and is showing signs of the rose and telling me to tell you to remember him but move on. I am ok and I love you, you need to move on and you have opened your heart to so many other things and I am proud of you you showed strength through the hard times, I am proud of you with that. I know it was hard but you meant the world to me and know I will always be there for you and I need you to be strong. I will be waiting. Give the kids a kiss from me. I love you. he is showing me a big diamond and heart and also he gave me the taste of 'Halls' Lemon and Honey cough sweets, do you have a sore throat?

Margaret and Tony - I how are you... we love you and happy anniversary! mom and dad

Linda - Your father is here he is sitting proud and strong and know that he loves you and honors you, for what you do. He is sorry and he never meant to hurt you and that he hopes you forgive him. Much sorrow around him when he is close to the earth plane it is easier for him to be in spirit. Tell your mom hi!

I have a son here who's mother reads these, he committed suicide - Mom you were never supposed to find me like that I couldn't cope. I know I was young and you blame yourself but don't I had to get out, you know that, and it was a running battle, I wasn't always the easiest guy and I was a mess but you weren't to blame and remember that. I am so sorry that you are going through the heartache but I feel so much better I can't say any more than that. I am ok and I am actually happy happier than I have been in a long time.

Adam - Can you tell my mom (Pat) that I am ok, she has been worrying and I have been missing for a while and it was the drugs that did it, it wasn't anyones fault but don't fret I am ok, I will be fine and you will find my body but not yet, you need to look by the river near the falls and you will find me, there is a wash that I will be in. Don't look at me as you will regret it and I am sorry . Jake is also here, but I am ok I know you will worry I don't like to say this here but I have to as it's the only way I can get through to you. Marg is doing her best but I wasn't ready to talk until now, so please tell her thanks and I love you and dad. There are others that know where I am or where I was but it has been a while that my body has moved and I am not in the same place as I was left, but I am ok... Please... I love you and stop worrying! I love you (I feel so much love here, I can't express it enough) Smiling and waving goodbye!

David - please say hi to mom. I was taken from her, and I am OK. Tell her not to worry. It's peaceful here; she knows how I hated noise. Tell her not to worry, I'm with grandpa. He looked after me. Thank her for all the things she did and tried to do. It wasn't easy, but she needs to know I cared and loved her. Thank her for being a mom. It's important she knows I valued her. With love, Davy.

Martin - please tell my wife I love her. It was so hard toward the end. We weren't getting on, and I didn't make it easy. (He was showing me, I think, a fire fighter's uniform.) I want her to know that I am sorry, but I am happy for her as she is not wallowing in her own self pity. It's important, and please let her know thank you. I am proud of her. He also wants to acknowledge Sarah too.

Arthur- I really like this guy and it'd not the first time he has come through. Very smart in appearance and wants to acknowledge his wife. She was very dear to me, always looking after me and telling me she loved me. I never told her back in so many words, but I did love her. I am proud of our son, he's had a hard time recently, but I am proud of him and yell him to keep up the good work

Mary - we're with you and love you. Love, Mom

Johnny - whoo hoo life rocks! We had a great time, didn't we, dad. Tell him I'm happy. He needs to know, and it's been a ride!!! Thanks for the tribute and what you did for me. Taking me places was important and you taught me my first gun and to shoot. This deadly disease hit me hard, but I'm ok. I now help so many others take the ride too. Thanks for keeping my memory alive. Tell mom not to worry and my bro I love him too! Take care, dad, go easy. Love ya! Fast car now as he puts his foot down and drives off...

Kelly - please say hi to my girls. I loved them very much, they did all they could. The cancer was a hard battle, but we faced it strong. They were too young to lose their mother, but I will always be watching over them like an angel. I love them both and tell them to sleep well. I will make them safe! Need to acknowledge Cardi and dad. Love you!

Shirley - get out now before you endanger yourself. You know it's not going to change. Escape while you have the chance! We're here, mom and dad

Alison - Aunt Mildred / millie wants to smile and say best years of your life!

Lindsey - your mom says hi

Tammy - Your mom wants to say hi. There have been hard times and some great times. but just remember me and your father love you and that we are here for you. The dreams that you are having are real and we want you to know that we are always there. Please give your little girl a kiss your grandmother is here and she never got to see her, I had the blessing of it and I am so grateful and we watch over her for you so you know she is safe. Love you!

Cindy - Mom is here. I want you to know that you do your best and it's a great thing that you have done, no everyone has done it. in fact others have stepped away from their responsibility and you were here for me. there was nothing you could have done I would have had to go anyway. take no notice about what others have said you did your best and I love you so much. Our family is just so hard and you have had a rough time with it but I am here. Just remember that. With love and don't forget you did all you could. I love you!

Mark - Mom wants to say hi also , she struggled towards the end and it was hard, "but I want you to know that I love you and thank you for being there for me it was hard with your schedule and you must know that even though we never got to say goodbye I still love you.

Melissa - mom is with you and so is grandma. they are both together looking after you and your brother and your father. I should have stopped smoking but I don't think that would have done much good, but I did listen but maybe it was too late, but thank you fro caring the roses are from me and I hope you know that. The raindrops remember them I love you and please remember I am there even though you can't see me I'm still there. I love you

Tony - Hey guys how are ya! Wooo it's been a ride and a ride of my life that is still going on... you know please have a beer for me... I a happy and I want you to know that you shouldn't worry about me as I am happy... yeah. Oh the tattoo is great.. thanks! Love ya guys you are the best.

Stacy/Tracy - A little solemn feeling. Hi how are you I am ok, it's been tough and I didn't realise that I had to do this work on the other side i thought it would-be easy but now I realise I caused hurt and heartache, I know I will get over it but it's hard seeing you all crying, I hate it. Please don't cry I am ok and I am well... I am not lonely like I was when I was here. I know you think I went too young but I knew I wasn't going to be alive for long and I am happy. It's been a crazy ride and I am ok... it's only been 3 weeks but I am ok. Hey thanks for the send off.

Hey Mom... I know you come to this site ALL the time, and I want you to know that I am O.K please know this and I love you. WOW what a send off. It was great you got my songs and everything. Listen stop looking a the photo and I know you have been sorting out some stuff that you have and also you were given. I'm ok. I haven't been here long but what a place, so much love and I can feel how much you are hurting, please don't I am ok and happy. I knew what my lifes work was and I am glad that I was able to do it. Don't worry about what is missing you will find it when the time is right and I want you to know I love you. I see you and you know that I am around so I am happy that you feel me!! Love you mom – J

Dad- I am ok please don't worry you and mom have done your best in creating a great world for me and my sis and I need you to know I am ok I love you. It's not bee long and it's time to start clearing out some stuff...okay! Good for you for looking into your spirituality. Go for it's it's an awesome world here! Love to you and mom!

Margaret - Your sister wants to say hi and that she is with the rest of the family, she is sorry to have left you on your own and that you are the only one left but please know that they are there for you

Steve - Hey sis how are you... I'm sorry I left so early, I knew I would never be around for long, it's been a ride and one I have loved. I want you to know that I am ok. But you have found it hard but there is nothing I can do, when your time is up your time is up... but is it really. You know I wasn't into this sort of thing but look at me now I am here communicating in the way that you want to, You knew I would come through! I am really happy and I am happy so I need to you know that it's time to let go... okay!

Cowboy - Hey, mom often comes to this site and she checks it. I love music and anything else that is light, i couldn't believe when I was taken so quickly it was a shock to me and the whole town. I know I was loved, it sounds strange but I didn't realise how loved I was. Thanks mom for all that you do. I love you and I am there for you. Oh Yeah Happy Birthday!

Linda - I have a gentleman here for you who had his leg amputated! My whole leg just went numb and the pain was at the knee. Lovely guy though but he needed to either get new teeth or he didn't take care of them. He wants to say hi and to say hi to your mother. happy birthday to either one of you too.

Laurie - Your dad is here, with your brother and they are fine you don't need to worry about them you just need to take care of your mom. Your brothers accident didn't hurt and he is fine, I keep getting the name Simon. Your brother and your dad are together and they need you to know they are happy.

Michelle - There is a gentleman standing here who is very quiet but wants to acknowledge you and tell you it wasn't your fault and to stop feeling guilty, everyone is getting at you and that you don't like it, well tell them to leave you alone, I had to. Look after baby, she is precious and the most wonedrful thing in teh whole world. I love you and never stopped loving you, if only you could see that. I love you with all my heart and you need to know taht I am ok and I am out of emotional pain. It was not your fault don't beat yourself up... please!

Mikey - your mother says hi and you don't have to worry about the ring it's yours to do what you want with and you can decide who you want to give it too. I think she is lovely and you are doing the right thing, I only wish I had the change to meet her in person. You look so good together I know you were talking about me last night and I want you to know I will be there at the wedding. I love you say hi to brother.

Dawn - It's great what you are doing, you really have come one leaps and bounds well done for you and go for it.

Celine - dad/papa says hi and that you are his baby and thank you for being there holding my hand your family is so important to you and I love you for this your passion in life is incredible you have done so much and who'd have thought that this my little girl would come this far. Remember the piano and don't fall off!

Millie- Home cooked food keeps wafting by me. Yum it shells so nice. Keep strong and say your prayers you will be looked after by those who love you.

Celia - Your husband is with me he is not a loud person he is very humble and wants me to acknowledge his love for you and his children. He was in the wrong place at the wrong time but he loves you and that he is there for you. It's not been an easy time for you and that you are struggling. November was hard and so was Christmas and please let the children know that daddy is looking over them. You need to be strong for the children now and you have the support of those who love you and I want everyone to know that I am grateful for them being in my life. i couldn't believe the amount of people that turned up it was wonderful. thank you for everything, it's now your time to move on. i love you!

Percy - Hi it's from your wife. I didn't know that you watch this. Can you look after your daughter she needs you and I want you to know that you couldn't do anything and you don't have to keep apologising for nothing there was nothing you could do. I love you and I will be waiting

Daisy - Grandpa says hi and that he is so proud of what you have accomplished carry on doing what you are good at!

Michael - Your mom, She had cancer, wants to say hi and thank you for being there and for bringing the flowers they did put a smile in her soul and that you should be happy that she is in a better place and that her love for you is with her and that you need to know that she is with her mother. She is well and tell your sister that she loves her too. There is illness in the family but things will be ok. I love you always and I will be waiting.

Marcus - We love it!!! Smiles for you!!! Well done you have worked so hard and it's been a hard journey but we are so proud of what you have done! Keep up the good work and we are so happy for you. Mom xox PS. Watch your parking! ;-)

Charlie - Stop fighting it. There is nothing you can do and allow your self to come over, it will be easy for you. We are here and we love you. John tell him please.

Ginny - How are you girlfriend? Sorry I didn't get to say goodbye you know me always a mystery but I'm doing well here and dad has arrived safely too... Sparkle girl go for it and work hard, I miss you but I'm well... lets rock!

Poppy - The world is your oyster!!

Peter - you only get out what you put in. Your mother is watching you. She is with her sister and they are fine. One of them 'Carole(?)' had cancer. They are both looking out for you and they love your little boy.

Martha - mommy is watching over you and loves you always.

Mandy - I'm fine I am ok. She has long blonde hair and is really lovely. Tell mom I'm ok, dad thank you for the wreath, Marty I love you with al my heart. Bruno the dog is with me.

Kevin - it's been a hard tough road and there is nothing you an do anymore. You have to go. I am with you and supporting you as always. I am ok. I was weak at the end but I am fine, it was a relief to pass and I needed to go. You will always be a good father. I love you.

Sally-Ann - we're thinking of you and congratulations. They are showing me a car. I am also being shown a graduation.

Mary, Patty, and Doris want to say hello to the grandkids that they never met. Our father is here and we are happy, mom came back in Chloe. We love you.

Stuart - tell my wife I am sorry for the hurt and pain I caused it wasn't easy and it wasn;t your fault. There was nothing I could do I am sorry about how I was found.

Jamie is a great kid tell him I am thinking of him. You did the best you could and I am happy.

Wayne - dad I am ok please believe me. It was hard and the kids at school tormented me you know that and we couldn't talk but I wanted you to know I love.

Chuck passed of a heartattack he's not saying much just wants me to be aware of him. He is sending his love to his family.

Younger girl, curly blonde hair. Keep getting the name Hailey. The car accident hurt but it was just my leg that really felt the pain no where else. I am fine and happy thank you for the tributes and also the song that was played and I like being by the ocean. Love ya!

Rose - a kiss from a rose. You know me and I never stopped loving you with all my heart.

Susan - Your mother is ok, she wants you to know that even though her battle with cancer was short and that you were not there as often as YOU would like, she knew you couldn't have been you were a wife and a mother and you had to be there for the children. But she thanks you for all that you did and it was hard, please look after your dad. She is in a safer place and she is sorry that she kept it from you for a while, it was so hard in the beginning even she didn't want to hear it. Please forgive her, she loves you so much.

Little girl, no name - wants to let her mommy know that it wasn't her fault. "I didn't survive long, there was nothing she could do." she keeps giving me a 'M' name or something to do with M. she is not strong enough to make this clear, but she is showing me a teddy bear and she felt your kiss. "thank you mommy and I will be back"

Claire - Pardon my for being rude and butting in but I needed to let my mom know that I am ok and I am well... Thank you or all that you have done fro Richard and the kids it's not easy but you are a mother and you will always be there best mother in the world. She is showing me some form o embroidery? And also a stone that means something?? I love you and I will always be around you look for the daffodils.

Patty and Beth - smell the perfume it is her. she wants to say hi, she isn't really strong but she is with you and loves you always.

Mark - Sorry mom for al the heartache that I have caused you and dad and the rest of the family, I couldn't do it it was hard for me, I hope you understand. staying here was harder than death it's self and I know you know what I am saying but please, know that I am at peace. It was no ones fault and I know you are looking for answers but there isn't any and I only hope you continue to love me and support me the way that you did when I was alive. I will be here for a while before I go higher, there are so many questions that I have so many things that I need to have answered so I will be working on my self. Love you all. Look after the dog.

Paul - Monkey and I love you. I am your angel and always remember that. this feels like a female energy but with a make energy behind her. I can't quite work it out. Mother loves you.

Marie - it wasn't moms fault, you know that don't you. Please don't blamer her, I will visit you someday. I'm with my mother, may father and I have resolved our differences and we love each other. just let your brother know.

Jack - Charlie and I are fine so stop worrying, we are having a party, you know us, the bigger the party the bigger the laugh. have a drink for us, but not too much, leave some for us ;-) Love ya!

Angel - wrapping arms around and thank you for what you are doing, its hard on mom, I know you are scared to tell her, but she deserves to know. Mark and I have resolved our differences, thank you for all that you are doing, I will be found and I need to be not just for you but for me. I have things that I need to show you but only after I am found. I will be I love being by the ocean and thank you I cannot thank you enough. I love you sis.

Cheryl - your mother is with you. It's been hard recently and she wants you to know that the baby will come and that you shouldn't worry. You will be sent an angel for you. It's not your time and you are not ready, but it will come hold on tight! Love you.

Pauline, Ann & Margaret - We are fine and stop arguing over the jewelry. Its' there for you all and there is enough. I don't want you to argue, it's not worth and life is too short.

Mom you did the right thing. I was not going to come back it was just the machine that was keeping me a live and you know that, I know it was the hardest decision that you had to make but I am fine. You always told me not to go fast and that one day I would fall off. I should have listened to you but I am fine, you know how I loved my bike. I loved it and I died doing something I love. It was not your fault and I did listen to you, but sometimes I just didn't take your advise. I am happy and I am ok... I love you always, your son!

Charles, Vera & Alan look after your mom she deserves nothing but the best and I want her to be happy.

Annett (e) - I love yo and thank you for what you did for me I will never forget this. I love my friends and family. The cancer was hard, but it was a relief to go, it really was I couldn't stand it any longer. It was easy and I am fine. I will be fine, so please stop worrying. I had to go it was my life and I am happy. I want to thank you for the flowers that you gave me and the home comforts you made me feel very very special. Please tell my friends and my husband that I love them. I couldn't walk towards the end and it was the right thing to do. I was not going to get better and you know that. I love children and I will be helping out children here when I feel up to it and I have moved on. Please tell him to met someone else he is a good man and deserves to me as happy as he made me.

Jen - Oh what is he like. he has moved on and I am happy for him, but WHAT is he doing with his life... I need him to know that I am happy for him, but tell him to slow down. I would never tell him to do anything really except when I thought it was necessary so I am now kicking in him in the butt... Tell him to see the signs and listen to them and then do what HE wants to do nothing more. its his life. I love you him... thank you.